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Hey Tidbitters!

Hope you are all doing well!  The Cats send their purrs ... err ... provided you send them treats they just told me.

Looking at today's title.  What the heck does it mean? I experienced a crack in my perception. I'm thirty-eight years old and that one crack caused me to see something I have held in my perception for this lifetime.

I said something to a friend and they seemed to get angry and left.  I was really concerned.  This was an online friend and they went offline.  I was beside myself with worry that I had greatly offended them.  I searched what I had said, and could not find what could have been offensive by it, but still I knew my friend was upset, and I was sick in my thoughts that I had caused it.

I didn't see them online again until the next day.  I had been worried the entire time, and quite stressed.  I approached them, and inquired once more, if I had offended them.  To my utter surprise they were not angry with me, they were angry with themselves.  My words reflected something in their life about them that they didn't like.  All was well between us.

Here was a huge crack in my perception.  I looked at myself and realized even if a person simply withdraws from me, my immediate thought is, what did I do to offend them?  I haven't considered what may be going on in their life.

I found a fear I have.  I have always known all my life I cannot stand to have hurt or offended someone.  What I didn't know is how much this fear surrounds me and remains at the forefront of my thoughts to the degree if anyone merely withdraws even a little, I fear I have hurt them somehow.

We learn ourselves from looking into the mirror of others.  Even when that reflection at times may be painful.  When my friend logged that night, I was in a great deal of pain, but the next day, I found a gem, I would have never discovered had it not been for my friend.

Embrace the people in your life. Look at how you react to them.  Therein lies your reflection.  Tweak that which you do not like.

I surround you in the love of Mother and Father God.  May their blessings be upon you!  My love to you all!

In His Joy,
Seqkat >^..^<

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